Put it in parenting as it is probably more to do with how I deal with it, although he is being naughty...
ANyway - ds1 is nearly 5. Lively, exhausting and becoming increasingly cheeky.
An example: I have just been to a sports shop looking for something for me. I only take them when necessary as shopping is a real trigger - they are bored (understandably) so only keep it to short 5 or 10 minute visits when necessary.
We do the whole 'what I expect in the shops' routine before going in. Ds1 starts by kicking a ball. I ask him nicely could he put it back and stand next to the buggy. He ignores me and carries on. I ask again. He laughs and carries on. I then go and calmly remove the ball and put it back by which time he gets another ball and runs off. And so it continues.
Eventually he is holding the buggy uttering how horrible a mummy I am and he will smack my bottom later (I don't smack....). Then he 'accidently on purpose' knocks over a display of running shorts. I am still calm.
Eventually we get to the queue - been in the shop less than 10 minutes. Queue is huge. DS1 decides to do a horrid henry style 'ner ner ner ner ner' and starts hitting his bottom.
At which point I dump the stuff that I was going to buy, leave silently, strap them in the car and drive home.
That is just an example. He is not always like this but it is becoming increasingly common.
I try to avoid situation where it will trigger but sometimes it is essential and I also think at nearly 5, he needs to learn how to behave in situations which ARE boring and not geared around him iyswim.....
Any advice?
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Help me sort out ds1's (almost 5) behaviour in public....
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popsycal · 06/05/2007 12:13
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