I am really struggling with this and thought MN might be able to offer advice.
I'm 33 weeks gone and pretty tired...still trying to get the house organised and believe me it doesn't come naturally!
Have been looking for a bigger place/better location for months, but only just found one that is anywhere near our needs, and knocks this place off our top spot (was resigned to staying put as due date is getting so close - and our present house is quite nice really).
The one I'm tempted by is cheap for what it is (renting ATM, single mum, long story!) and absolutely huge - it has 3 bedrooms and 3 receptions, it's a 17th century house, all beams etc.. gorgeous. Also has a good sized, enclosed garden which I value for my boys.
It's much nearer town and supermarkets for me, currently I find it a trek as we haven't a car. I'd love that. the local school isn't any worse than the one here. (DS who is almost 4, starts in Sept. so obviously don't want to move him after that).
The main problems are these:
Mum and Dad are currently a few minutes walk up the road and Mum has DS1 several times a week. She and Dad are all the support I have with the new baby arriving soon and have been marvellous.
The new place would be a couple of miles away across town, and Mum is saying it would mean DS1 losing out on the time he spends with her.
She also says he'll be traumatised enough with the new baby and having to share my attention. (We are very close and he sleeps in my bed etc - not about to change)
She thinks the whole thing of having new surroundings will be far too much for him to cope with. I seem to remember loving moving house as a kid, but not sure if she has a point, what with new baby to contend with as well.
I'm due in, well, 7 weeks and it is bound to be stressful moving - though I'm quite happy to leave everything in boxes and just live simply after it's done. Such a big house and also very clean and new kitchen etc, so no need to go and clean it before moving in.
I'm just concerned about the timing/effect on me, thence on DS1 who doesn't need a stressed mum - though I feel energised by the whole thing and love moving anyway!
We've been where we are since DS1 was 11 months old and it's the only place he really knows. But I'd love more room for my boys and just feel it might be worth it long term, despite the parental support being slightly diminished.
What do you all think...HELP!!!
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Should we move house now? 33 weeks pregnant!
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flightattendant · 24/04/2007 16:02
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