DD id 2.5 and apart from the typical toddler tanrtums and things, has been a perfect child. She's completely textbook and just really, really nice ... until this week.
She's starting wetting herself (after being dry for about 2 months) and is being purposefully naughty and defiant which is not like her. I know what it's about, I'm having twins and this last fortnight all she's seen or heard has been about or for the babies, so I guess she's feeling left out, insecure and wanting attention. We've been off work so now has been the ideal time to move bedrooms, have big baby-related items delivered etc.
We're not treating her differently (I don't think) but we've considerably toned down the talk of babies now and made an effort to spend more time/attention than usual on her.
I'm just worried I've made my girl feel unloved and like she has to be naughty to get attention. Guilty doesn't come close to describing how I feel this week.
Will this pass? And how on earth will i cope when I've got newborn twins and physically cannot give her the attention she is used to?
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BibiThree · 16/04/2007 12:55
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