I believe my wife's relationship with her son is too close. We got together when her son was 13 (hes now 18), from the start i thaught he was gay, when i first met him he hanging around with this girl and i said "oh is this your girlfriend" he replied "eww no gross" so i thaught from there he was gay. His relationship with his mum as from when we met has never changed, very close, a lot of hugging, cuddling on sofa, kissing (on lips ONLY lips NO toungue), effectionate taps/squeezing his bum. Not a shy boy to be walking around in his underpants, when he does she whistles to him and says "hey sexy"a bit odd i know. Not that long ago he walked down wearing only his mothers jumper on (it was long on him a few inches above the knee), i instantly thaught to my that he is soo gay. he still calls her "mummy". he might be gay which is his choice but i am just confussed