This is causing some friction in my usually very laid back extended family.
My Dc are teens now but when they were younger I felt that weekends were for spending time with family and didn't arrange extra curricular stuff for Saturday or Sunday. This was easy enough for us as they both hated sport so football etc was never on the cards. They did Swimming, Cubs and music lessons which could all be arranged during the week.
My DSis' children do everything. Often 2 activities per evening in the week and a full programme at weekends. It sounds exhausting to me but obviously that's up to them. Where it does start to cause problems is for me is any extended family get-togethers, which have to be arranged around this programme. e.g. DGM has a big birthday coming up and would like to arrange a weekend or even a day out with all the DGC, but it can't happen because of all these activities. We all live several hours apart, so it's not easy to just do something in the evening. DGM doesn't ever ask for much but this is upsetting her. She has in the past driven several hours to babysit for all of us and has stayed with DSis for a week at a time to provide emergency childcare. She gives far more than she takes IYSWIM.
If your DC do have busy lives what kinds of events are big enough to miss their activities?
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If your DC do lots of weekend extra curricular activities, what events are important enough to miss them?
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potentialqualms · 16/10/2016 08:36
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