My DD was asked to go away to the Canaries next summer with her best friends family, all expenses paid. She is 8, her friends family only have one child, also 8. Our DD has never been abroad and we came to the conclusion that she was too young and considering that she has never been abroad before we wanted her first trip away to be with us. Also the mother of her best friend is a little bit too crazy for us. She likes to tell everyone how spontaneous she is and TBH I wouldn't feel happy my DD being under her influence for two weeks.
Anyway after we said that the answer was No, the mother went and asked the other friend in their little group who is from a more disadvantaged and unstable background. Her mother immediately said yes as she would never get the chance to take her on such an expensive holiday. The two girls are now naturally all excited about it, but my dd is the one on the outside feeling left out.
I havn't told her yet that she was invited but we said no and I don't know how to deal with it., It rips me apart seeing my dd upset, I know that the mother of the other girl is perfectly entitled to ask whoever she wants on holiday and the other mother make whatever decisions she wants concerning her dd. I think they are both being very irresponsible but maybe that's just me.
Just wondering if anyone else thinks that 8 is too young to go away with a friends family who you don't know very well at all. I just can't believe that the other mother is letting her child go when she has only met the girls mother outside the school gates.
Any views/advice.
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Letting DD go on holiday with another family.
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winteriscoming1 · 27/09/2016 14:42
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