Hi everyone,
I'm posting on here to get a sanity check on my reaction to something which is happening with my ex. I imagine that this might earn a few eye-rolls already, but hopefully someone has had a similar experience and can share their thoughts.
We have a child arrangements order, which on the whole works well and my daughter sees plenty of both parents.
Recently my ex has started insisting on speaking to my daughter during her time with my family, asking for phone calls during which she asks questions about what we have been up to.
To be clear if my daughter ever asked to speak to my ex, then I would of course make a phone call on her behalf; she never does, and while I'm sure she misses both of us when she is with the other parent, she does not feel the need to speak to the parent she is not with, as we both spend plenty of time with her.
Now the questioning is done in a nice manner, but I'm beginning to see this as an intrusion on my family's time with my daughter, and I'm not sure what my ex is trying to achieve with it.
I messaged my ex to indicate that I felt it an intrusion, only to have my concerns simply sidelined and my ex making a more determined effort to speak to my daughter.
I've no idea what the legal situation is here, if the court would do be able to, or see the need to do something, but before I go down that avenue, I was wondering if anybody has had a similar experience? Am I being reasonable? Or am I reacting with too much emotion? The sad truth is I don't trust my ex's motivations after all the trouble we've had.
thanks,
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user1471975495 · 23/08/2016 19:35
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