My DS was born 3 weeks ago and has colic. He cries for hours at a time and I can very rarely put him down. I'm awake for a good part of the night with the colic too. I also have an 18 month old DD who is 'spirited' to say the least and is demanding and sensitive, even for a toddler.
I've been extremely lucky to have been staying with my mum along with my partner since DS was born but we are moving back home in a week. My partner is back at work so when back home it will just be me and the children. My partner is really hands on with DD and he puts her to bed and gets up with her during the night if needed.
So far I've only managed 15 minutes on my own with the 2 of them and even that seemed impossible! I can't put the baby down as he cries and the toddler wants my attention constantly. She is very physical and climbs all over me and DS. My nerves are shredded from trying to stop her hurting him!
I read lots before DS was born about how to handle two and tactics like reading to DD while DS is breastfeeding. Not as easy as it sounds when trying to keep a good latch, turn the pages and stop DD from hitting him/jumping on him. Then 5 minutes after a feed the colic starts. When DS starts crying it sets off DD who is sensitive to noise (only other people's, she makes plenty of her own!) and it just ends up in a screaming match for everyone concerned.
What am I going to do?
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Have a newborn with Colic and an 18 month old. How to cope?
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CorraLinn · 08/05/2016 21:02
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