I posted a while back about some issues I was having with my childminder and I had some fantastic replies so thank you to all those who remember my thread.
Anyway, I continued to feel uneasy about sending DS there so started to look into nurseries and spoke to my Managers about whether they could arrange my shifts in a certain way to fit in with nursery and this is still being looked at. I also contacted a few other childminders to see if they had any spaces but it all came to nothing.
I continued to send DS to his current CM and things did seem to calm down a little as things seemed to be improving.
Anyway, last week my CM phoned me to say that due to personal circumstances involving one of her daughters there will now be one set day a week that she wouldn't be able to provide childcare on. This has left me and DH in a sticky situation really as we need a childminder who is available 5 days a week and so I told her that we may have to look at withdrawing DS.
Part of me felt that it was actually giving me an easy way out of her being DS's childminder.
The next day I was very surprised to hear back from one of the childminders I had previously contacted who said that she now had space available as of next month if I still needed it. It all seemed to be working out so perfectly.
Me and DH were on a short break during all this so we arranged to visit her when we were back so we're going to her home next week.
Anyway, a few days after I heard from that CM I passed comment to a good friend of mine who used to be a childminder that we are meeting a lady next week about DS, she asked what the CM's name was, I told her and isn't it just typical that my friend knew of her and said she isn't a nice person. She said that she doesn't know what the lady is like as a CM but they had previously clashed and this lady is apparently quite "gobby".
I have actually met this CM a few times, and chatted to her briefly, at a toddler group me and DS go to and she's always seemed very pleasant.
I know I shouldn't make judgements based on a comment my friend made but my optimism for getting a new CM has been dashed and I feel like I'm right back at square one again
It's just so hard leaving your child with someone else isn't it.
I'm sorry there's no actual point to my post, I was just getting it off my chest.
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Writerwannabe83 · 14/04/2016 21:09
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