DS is 2.8 yrs and we also have 5 month old DD, who is very demanding. She's lovely but only ever wants me, screams when she's not with me for 5 mins, won't take a bottle and generally wants to be breastfed/cuddled by me/or at least in very close proximity to me all the time. I do feel that I have lost a certain amount of closeness with DS since DD has been born. I try to play with him but there are days where she is just constantly screaming and the poor little lad gets neglected. He has also been a bit cheeky and naughty recently, which I'm sure is a cry for attention. He often does naughty things, so I will ask him not to, to which he usually says "no mummy" and just carries on. I'll ask him again in a more firm tone. And then I usually end up losing it and shouting at him because he's ignored me the first couple of times when I didn't shout. I've been doing the naughty step quite a bit recently but don't want to do it for every single thing. Basically he just doesnt listen to me. He's also a nightmare when we're out - he has now perfected the art of climbing out of his buggy (despite being strapped in!) and totally ignores me when I tell him to get back in/sit down. Physical force is rather restricted having DD strapped on the front of me in the carrier. Don't even get me started on letting him walk anywhere.
I'm sure plenty of you have had this situation after having a second DC? I feel sad that we have lost our closeness and he tends to favour his dad more now. I'd like us to do some stuff just the two of us but as I said it just doesn't seem to be possible at the mo. Any thoughts on how I can make things better?
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Feel like i want to 'reconnect' with my toddler
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LMonkey · 01/08/2015 23:46
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