They are both very lovely but both quite full-on. I'm finding that by 9 am we're usually all cross and teary and shouty because nothing seems to just go smoothly! Not helped by the fact that they are both early risers (5.40 today, which is the better side of average) and there's currently no pre-school to force us out of the house. The older one is now pretty good at playing lego, colouring etc on his own for reasonable amounts of time, but the little one has hit prime-age for basically just getting in his way or getting screechy and I honestly find that some mornings I honestly can;t even leave them in the same room for fear of one hurting the other out of frustration and/or arguments over toys etc. When they're in a good humour with each other they are perfection - they do dressing up, make dens, play endless role play games etc but these can often come to an abrupt and violent halt when there's a tussle over whatever. Can you think of any activities I can set them up with that both would enjoy or is 4 and 2 just a bloody difficult age difference? I blame the older one probably more than I should when things get out of hand, which doesn't help. Argh.
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Do your 4yo and 2yo boys manage to peacefully co-exist when you're at home? Help
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BR44 · 28/07/2015 20:10
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