Background - DD is 20m, we live in a small flat, no dining area, tiny kitchen with small table and chair for her. DP and I eat in living room, usually trays on lap but we do also have a drop leaf table that we can get out but it's a faff.
So because DD sees us eating in the living room, she wants to eat in there too. We've been weak and let her have dry snacks / stuff that won't spill on the carpet in there, but of course she doesn't understand why we won't let her eat proper meals in there, which means tantrums and no eating til we give in. She now refuses to eat anything in the kitchen, cue more tears.
Plus the TV is in the living room, and I have given in recently in the morning when she wakes up ravenous (but has a total meltdown before she can even get the food in because she's so hungry) by putting the TV on so she calms down and absentmindedly starts to eat. Food goes in, happy child.
I feel like we've got in a right old mess - no wonder she's confused and testing boundaries. I'd like to say we'll just make the kitchen the only place she eats and sees us eat - hard to enforce but I'll happily try, but where do I start?
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Help me get toddler mealtimes right
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WhizzPopBang · 16/05/2015 15:08
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