DS is 4 and a half and started school this year. Twice already the teacher has spoken to me - once abt an incidence of biting , and then today he told me that 2 or 3 times this week he has got into little fights at playtime , with some hitting an another incidence of biting.
Last night DS started crying at bedtime saying everyone thought he was bad because he was hitting. at this time I wasnt aware what had been going on at school. I said he should stop hitting if that was the case and he said he couldnt. he was sobbing.
He is a very physical and emotional child. we have always had problems with him hitting us and obv always reinforced the message of how its wrong to hit and he has had various punishments.
I feel so upset about this: i dont know how to get him to stop doing it. there is no malice in what hes doing really and he doesnt want to hurt anyone , it really is like he can control it
please does anyone have any thought on how to approach this
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daisygatsby · 19/09/2014 13:07
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