My ds1 is nearly 11 weeks old and we have been swaddling him from early on as he had a very strong reflex which used to wake him constantly. Recently he has turned into such a wriggler that every time I go to him he has ended up with the swaddling blanket over his face regardless of how tight I do it. This obviously worries me slightly so I decided I would try to move him into a grobag. But the arm problem came back with a vengeance and he would be up every half hour or so. I said to my hubby that someone should invent a grobag with 'bat wings' that allow a little movement but not too much if they startle. I don't think such a thing exists so I have taken to - please don't think I'm awful - safety pinning the cuffs of his babygrow to the middle of the grobag.
This allows him to stretch/ touch his face etc but he sleeps soundly. There is no way the pins can prick him or anything.
My MIL is absolutely horrified at the thought and says it could hurt his wrists. I can't stand to think I'm doing something cruel but it seems like a midway between the swaddle and the grobag.
Any thoughts?
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TearingMyHairOut · 22/09/2006 11:03
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