Hi everyone
Just looking for some advice please.
My DS is 9 and has always been a little bit of a worrier, however he seems to have gotten worse over the last few months. He hates going to bed on his own, hates sleeping in his own room and will call downstairs to me over the slightest little thing. I used to go up and see him and talk things through, but that didn't seem to improve the situation.
I then started getting a bit stricter and telling him to only shout down if he was I'll. that didn't work either.
Last night, he came down stairs in floods of tears, saying he was scared. We had a cuddle and I asked him what he was scared about. He said he was scared that something would happen to me. He was scared that someone was going to come in the house and hurt me or take me away. We had a chat about what we could do so that he wasn't so scared. We have agreed that he will come round with me each night and check all the windows and doors were locked. He said that he wants us to go to bed, at the same time, in my bed, which just isn't practical. When he is in bed, I do the ironing, bits of cleaning, Uni work etc. I said that he could sleep in my bed for the next few nights to see if that made him feel less scared.
Does anyone have any other suggestions of things that I can do to help him feel more secure? (he still has a cuddly toy in bed).
Many thanks
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Lucyccfc · 02/09/2014 11:50
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