Hi, I'm after some opinions/advice, I am currently feeling really overwhelmed and am not sure what to do to get through.
I have two DDs, 6 and 3, dd1 has issues that we are dealing with but she requires a lot of extra support and patience which I am finding especially hard to provide right now. I work three days a week at a fairly demanding job and am just finding it hard to keep up with everyday life. The washing for example is way out of control. There are piles of stuff in every room, our garden is shocking
I feel tired and headachey all the time. I have had an unsettled stomach for weeks and get indigestion all the time. My diet is shocking and exercise is just walking dd to school and back. I am overweight, none of my summer clothes fit and I have nothing to wear on our imminent holiday.
I feel like I don't want to do anything. I am managing to cook tea for everyone and we all manage clean clothes. I don't think my husband realises how bad I feel. I am afraid he thinks I am lazy and will not respect me for getting stressed out by stuff that most people manage on a daily basis.
I took two days off sick last week and am really tempted to go to the doctors and ask for some time off sick, I feel like I need space to process everything about my DD1 and get back on top of things but am afraid that everyone will think I'm a failure and that I'm not reliable. I am worried though I'll just sit at home and fester if I'm not at work. I don't have much holiday time and can't afford take unpaid leave.
Has anybody any ideas on what I should do?
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Thatsnotmychicken · 13/07/2014 14:13
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