I think weve gone badly wrong with mealtimes for our 22 mth old dd. Weve given in to letting her watch the iPad at mealtimes whilst coaxing her/spoon feeding her. I dont quite know how it got this bad. What she eats is healthy, shes never had chocolate/crisps, rarely has ice-cream/cakes, only has fruit/oat crackers/bread sticks etc as snacks. But the only food she can reliably be left alone to eat is bread/cheese. In order to get her to eat veg/fish/proper meals etc we end up spoon feeding her in front of Mr Tumble.
I feel a real failure and I know it isnt dds fault. Thankfully shes at nursery 5 days a week and eats healthy meals there without any coaxing so I know its just bad habits. Dds on the 90th percentile for weight but only 25-50th for height. Shes always been a big baby (shot up to the 90th by 3 mths and was ebf) but theres no genetic reason for dd to be large (dp and I are both slim and on the short side). I feel were just setting up bad food associations.
So as from this weekend were going cold turkey on the iPad. If dd doesnt eat and throws it on the floor so be it. No more following her around with a bowl of fruit while shes playing. Im going to take the if shes hungry shell eat approach. Am dreading it. Please tell me its retrievable and we havent screwed her up for life. I see other peoples toddlers just sitting at the table tucking into their meals happily and wonder where weve gone wrong :(
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
Toddler mealtime mistakes � determined to reverse them
21 replies
MillionPramMiles · 25/03/2014 11:45
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.