I'm sure this has been done many times before and I do love my almost 2 year old whirlwind. I just feel completely drained and exhausted keeping up with him. I'm almost 25 weeks pg and in all likelihood I probably do have low iron (had extremely low levels in my first pg) but I can't take anything for it as I'm waiting for thalassemia results to come back. I'm also waiting for a referral for a physio as I have a bad back. I don't sleep very well either and DP tends to wake everyone up when he goes to work.
I feel like I never get a moment's peace or just 2 minutes to sit down. Even as I write this I'm being repeatedly clambered on. I'm exhausted by the constant requests and whinging for something or other. The latest thing is emptying my kitchen cupboards and moving all my pans and distributing them about the house. I was almost followed into the shower by ds and 2 frying pans. I usually take him out but today is miserable and I'm simply too knackered to contemplate it. Would it be awful to stick him in front of cbeebies or a dvd?
Dp is very good with him and does a lot round the house now. But I'm getting irritated by the comments of 'but you were fine when you were pregnant with him', 'you walked everywhere and did XYZ' and 'how can you be THAT tired?' I do most things round the house, study for a cert HE part time and do coursework in the evenings.
I'm now dreading having a toddler and a newborn as I'm convinced it must be harder than just having one child. I also think I'm making a mistake applying for uni full time from next sept but I've put myself down as deferred entry for some courses.
This has gotten quite long so thanks for reading to the end.
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please someone reassure me that having a toddler and a newborn is easier than being pregnant with a toddler
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enormouse · 09/10/2013 11:07
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