Looking for some advice here. DS is 11 weeks old now and we're still in survival mode. The main problems are that DS needs a lot of help to sleep- walking round in the pram, rocking, letting him suck my finger, feed to sleep, etc, which is utterly impossible to do with Dd (3 years) about. I cannot play with her and get him to sleep, and I cant play properly with her until he is asleep. Dd is bored and attention seeking and I have less attention to give her. The other problem is I can't seem to convince dd to leave DS alone. She's always shaking his arms or bouncing g him or being giddy with him (excessively affectionate not violent). I don't want to break her confidence or ruin her relationship with her brother but all I seem to say is 'gently, dd' or tell her not to touch him as he's just got to sleep. But i cant do nothing. Today for example the poor sod was woken out of every single nap he tried to take by her antics, and by 5pm was owl faced and moaning with tiredness. Anyone got any tips on how to deal with this. I kept hoping things would get better on their own but we're nowhere! I've had him in a sling now so much of the time that I've got a trapped nerve in my neck and I just can't do it anymore
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quertas · 05/09/2013 22:54
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