My DS is four years old. I love him dearly. he's bright and funny and articulate. He is wonderful.
However, over the past year he has developed a real problem with going to bed and I'm at the end of my tether. I think we've just got locked into a confrontational cycle and I don't know how to break it. He flat refuses to go to bed even when he's completely knackered. He just shouts at me that he's not tired, or that he's hungry. He comes up with loads of different excuses. Once he gives in he goes to sleep really quickly,. but getting him to give in is the hard part. I'm so tired of it. I do this every single night. DP doesn't deal with it, but it stresses him out listening to the crying and tantrumming, and even more so when I lose it and shout. I know I shouldn't shout and I try to stay calm but I'm so exhausted and stressed out by it all that I frequently lose my cool and shout.
I don't want this for us. How do I stay calm? How do I get my DS to stop arguing and go to sleep? Nothing I've tried has worked. I'm so fed up and miserable now. I feel like a total failure. I feel so alone and life is just constant hard work and I just don't know how to turn this around. Any tips for how to deal with this calmly and get him to go to bed without the tantrums would be much appreciated.
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QueenofDreams · 28/01/2013 13:22
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