So my neighbour has a really obnoxious 6 year old daughter, who has always been really nasty to my two girls (of similar age) - telling them they can't play out in the street with her, making snide comments, making them cry etc.
She and another neighbour used to share the driving for a Rainbows run - one take, one pick up, and when my daughter joined they took and picked her up too as I couldn't fit them all in my car with 3 kids of my own. So I never had much to do with her. Now the other girl has stopped rainbows so me and this mum are sharing the driving. The girl never says a word to me or the other kids, or only a one word answer if anyone asks her a direct question. She NEVER says thanks or even bye when I drop her off and wears a permanent look of disgust that she has to have anything to do with us. Also, I have no evidence but both times so far my 2 year old (sitting next to her) has burst into tears as if hurt while driving home, and I suspect that she has deliberately pinched him or something, as I have seen her be nasty to other children before.
Do I a) put up with her rudeness and possible bullying of smaller child (only for 10 mins each week) because it's convenient for me if her mum does the Rainbows drop off, or b) do I say I can no longer take her but don't say why, or c) do I tell the mum that and why?
I'm not really friends with the mum but we are on OK terms even though I privately think her kids and dog (who poos on our porch) are obnoxious!
Vicki
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Put up with obnoxious child for easy life?
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Vickisuli · 22/01/2013 18:27
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