Genuinely don't know what's best here. I have two boys, DC1 is nearly 7 and DC2 is nearly 4. DC1 at school, DC2 at pre-school three days a week while I work and at home two days.
I would really like to know how much actual playing with children this age other mothers do. On school days we come home, the boys watch two TV programmes with a snack and then play until tea time. We chat intermittently and over tea, then they might play a bit more or potter about until bath. Then we read stories and then bed.
While they're watching TV or playing I'm normally finishing a bit of work or cooking tea. Sometimes I have to referee on fights. Sometimes they come in to the kitchen and chat to me or play around me. They have jobs they have to do (recycling, putting their clean laundry away) and so I might ask them nicely nag them to do that.
On my days off DC2 and I potter around the house on Thursday, I do some housework, might read to him a bit or play a game but on the whole he amuses himself. When it's nice we go to the park. Friday we might go to the park or softplay or to see a friend.
I feel like I spend a lot less time playing with DC2 than I did with DC1 at this age, because they play together a lot. And I wonder if I should be doing more with them in terms of playing board games or doing craft activities or you know, all the things we beat ourselves up about. What do people think?
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How much do you play with your school age children?
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JesusInACabbageVan · 22/01/2013 16:21
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