Hi, before I explain my situation, please note that I don't want to cause any offence to anybody who uses nurseries/preschools. I need genuine advice because I am stressing over this and would like to know other people's opinions on what I should do.
My DD is 18 months and currently home with me, but looked after by family members when I am at work part time (15 hrs a week). I keep being asked by various people (including my DH), when I am going to put DD's name down for preschool and when I am planning on her to start.
I definitely don't want her to start before she is 3, but I feel awkward thinking of having HAVE to put her in a pre school at a certain age, since over here kids start school so early.
I grew up in a country where children start compulsory education at 6 (when i was little, it was 7!) and toddlers are mostly cared for by extended families/grandparents if both parents have to be at work. I think it's mostly this huge cultural difference that stops me putting her name down/feeling comfortable about it. Also my own kindergarden experience was horrible (mum took me out of it quickly, as I was really stressed about it-mind you, it was 30 years ago in a communist country!) But I feel the pressure and worry that if she doesn't go to preschool, she may struggle at school?
i also don't understand the difference between playgroup/nursery/preschool.
Also, at 18 months she is still a frequent breastfeeder and a velcro child. I don't think I will have the guts to leave her in a preschool. But I need to put her name down somewhere or may end up not getting her a place at all.
Please talk some sense into me!!! DH (who is English) doesn't see a problem with it. Thanks for reading so far
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Do I have to send my DD to Pre school?
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Satine5 · 17/01/2013 15:24
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