Wonder if any mumsnetters can give me some advice. I was raised by an extremely irrational and violent parent, and it has taken many years to build some self-esteem and discover who I really am as an individual. Now at thirty my husband and I would like to start a family. I am told I am good with children, and definitely have strong maternal/broody feelings, but I'm so frightened of repeating any of my mother's behaviour...I am so anxious that that model of parenting must be ingrained in me. I have never been violent or abusive before, have never felt the impulse to be, but I still worry. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Thanks.
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21/04/2002 17:40
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