I dont know if anyone will still be reading this page but thought I would add my post on the off chance.
My son was born 9 weeks early weighing 4lb 4oz. It wasn't a complete shock as I had spent 3 weeks in hospital already trying to hang on to him, but nevertheless I found it devastating that he should have to go through so much so soon.
Compared to the messages here I think we got off fairly lightly, one week in intensive care followed by three weeks in special care. At one year old we have yet to discover any lasting problems, for which we are very grateful.
During our time in the second hospital we were largely treated very well but the first week, at a different hospital was terrible. Clinically they did everything they could but they operated a strict "hands off" policy which I found too much to bear and I now realise was totally unecessary in our case. I still feel quite emotional about those times and have had trouble shaking off the hurt despite the passage of time.
However, we have had a great year and our little boy is doing better than I could ever have imagined.
I know noone else in my situation so it was almost a relief to read the messages here, and even if no one reads this message at least I will have got it off my chest!
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Midge · 13/04/2001 21:32
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