Ever since my DS has been at school - currently in Year 1 - his biggest friend has been a boy with whom he attended nursery school. This was natural as he was the only boy my DS knew when starting school.
Once a week, DS went home to play after school with thi sboy and vice versa - this only went on for 3 - 4 weeks or so and was a casual arrangement. But then, I noticed a couple of weeks ago that DS's friend started taking another boy home for tea on the same evening, and DS is no longer invited, even tho they are best friends. OK, i can understand this - its a free country. But I started to be friends with this other boys mum and I felt a little hurt on behalf of my son. Now, DS's friend's Mum has slightly different values to me in bringing up children, and DS' s friend is not all that kind and sensitive, and when he has been to my house he never wants to play with DS but he just wants to play with his toys etc which used to upset DS a bit. So , all in all, on one hand I'm relieved at the situation but on the other I am offended, and if I'm honest with you, I dont find the Mum to be a very loyal person etc, and she's not exactly my type.
On the other hand, DS still is fairly dependent upon his friendship with the boy - so I dont want to spoil that for him. I have tried encouraging DS to bring other friends home but he really isnt bothered, and gets annoyed if I keep mentioning it..
I realise it may sound ike I'm making a big fuss of this - but I just feel angry that th other Mum didnt speak to me about it - instead she kind of just said nothing and seemed embarrassed when I saw her taking the other boy home..
How would you feel ?
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Feel hurt on behalf of my 5 year old
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HelenMeg · 14/10/2009 21:43
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