Hi
I have just the one child and have sort of grown to hate it.
I have this thought going around in my head that my ds is missing out on so much because of having no sibling to interact with and enjoy things with.
when we go out whether it be to a theme park or there if there happens to be soft play etc involved I am left thinking that poor ds has no one to go and run off with and play.
I know that to a certain extent us as parents can do some of these things with him but I am finding myself getting increasingly down about this side of things.
It seems that on days out everyone else has a car full of children and I am starting to feel envious, weird, and like we are odd with ds on his own.
We have done the take a friend along on some occasions and I do think that ds enjoys things just as much with just us as when he has a mate but it does make me feel better when he has a friend with him.
However I don,t have a strong network of friends with children of ds's age and it takes alot of effort on my part to arrange these mates for ds.
we also don,t have any cousins of ds's age in the family.
We have not tried the taking a friend on holiday yet don,t know whether we will.
Just wondering if any of you are in the same situation.
I would love to be able to pick up the phone to someone whether it be my sister or a friend and have something fun arranged with our children but my siuation is not like that.
I have found myself starting to avoid days out and holiday parks that make me feel worse about this and have started gearing more towards days out that the three of us seem to fit into more.
Can anyone relate to me or do I sound like a loon.
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Am I the only one to feel like this on days out holidays etc.
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lostitoday · 29/05/2009 09:09
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