Hi
My ds is 8 and I am a bit concerned about him as I don,t want him to become shy.
I have noticed that he can get a bit shy and hold back around other children unless they are school friends that he knows well or a best friend.
If I take him out and its just him and me and there is an activity that he can join in he will not do it if there is other children there as well that he doesn,t know.
I recently took him to the park and there was a couple of boys on the play equipment and he would not go on until they had moved off and it was just him there.
He has been funny like this for a while and it makes me feel quite bad at times as I would love him to be the sort that just mixes in well with anyone.
He is usually okay once he knows someone and is a real livewire then.
Has aybody else found this with an only it feels very awkward at times with him when he holdsback like this as its not possible to always have a friend with us if we go out anywhere.
He just seems to revert into his shell unless he has a mate with him.
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ghostfreak · 25/01/2009 17:12
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