This is the scenario: I went to pick up my ds 3.7 from his new nursery that he's attended two afternoons a week for 5 weeks. At the door and in front of ds she says ' You haven't given me the sessions you want for September he really needs to be coming everyday as we need to work on him since at the moment he doesn't speak the whole time he's here. Not to the staff and not to any of the other children.'
This was broadcast at me and all the other mums queuing into the street waiting to pick up their kids. Is that the normal method of discussing dcs?
Since then Ds doesn't want to go back and I have to virtually drag him there! After talking to him it turns out that he spends a lot of time on his own, when its playground time etc. Thing is the nursery has a strict policy of mums leaving their kids straight off as they 'settle better'. Well my little chicken obviously hasn't has he?
I'm thinking of changing in september to a nursery where I can go along and support, help him engage etc. at the start.
Does any one have a view on this? Am I over-protective (well I know I probably am - but want him to be happy and adjust well!) ? sorry so long.
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Fatfrog · 19/08/2007 00:53
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