I work 3 days a week and ds is looked after by his Gran on a Monday, his Granny on a Wed. and they alternate Fridays. This has been in place since I went back part time when he was 7 months and works really well (he loves his grannies especially when they give him chocolate buttons).
We agreed during my Mat. leave that the Friday childcare would be until ds was one year and he would attend nursery on that day from then. He secured a place starting next month and as its getting nearer I'm getting more and more anxious.
Completely coincidentally I've been reading 'Affluenza' by the Psychologist Oliver James (its all about how to avoid 'keeping up with the Jones's' and not mixing up your wants with needs) and have just finished a chapter all about mothers going back to work. Talk about feeling guilty! To cut a long chapter short he summarises that children under three do not benefit from nursery and in some ways (using case studies he observed) the child can become depressed and 'resigned' to being there.
One of the main reasons for sending ds there was to give him interaction with other children but he argues he is too young to benefit from this
Do I need to chill out about this and just play it by ear to see how he gets on? He has had two settling in hour sessions where he was fine but did burst into tears when I returned the second session.
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14 month year old about to start nursery one day a week and I'm having second thoughts
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foxymagoo · 30/07/2007 22:17
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