It seems like my cherubic son is manipulating the nursery staff like a pro. DH has just had to drive all the way back there having just dropped DS off (he'll have been there for all of 30 minutes at this point) because he's telling them he's tired and needs a cuddle. He was full of beans this morning, slept well, is now bouncing around the house, bored because he isn't at school because they sent him home.
Last week they asked us to send him in with biscuits as he'd been saying he'd like a biscuit. He doesn't get biscuits at home, he'll only have got them at the nursery, and he doesn't ask for them at home at all. Is it too much to ask that they just say 'no, Mummy's packed you this fruit instead'???. They have in the past called saying he was 'not quite himself' when he wanted to read a story rather than play football.
Am I being unreasonable here? It seems to me like he has them where he wants them, and they're aiding and abetting his currently intense clingyness by giving in to him. Its not that I don't want them to care about him and whether he's happy but I also know he loves nursery, is perfectly healthy and just playing up for attention.
Any advice Oh wiseones?
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meowmix · 14/01/2007 06:39
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