I am so confused and upset and really hoping someone can help with this!
When I picked my 2yo (just turned 2) up from nursery earlier, the nursery manager and his key worker asked to have a word with me as they would like permission to have my DS assessed. They were being really lovely, but they have said that his behaviour is challenging, and he needs help with his social interaction. They basically said that they think they've exhausted their skills and he needs specialist help as they don't know how to move forward with him.
Obviously I love him to death, but he IS really challenging. He hasn't slept at all during the day since he was 3 months old (honestly, he really hasn't!), he has an absurd amount of energy, he can honestly wake up at 6am, and be like a duracell bunny until 11pm if i'd let him. His attention span is really short, he moves from one activity to the next quicker than any of his peers. Most worryingly, he is increasingly violent (probably not the right word- that implies malice and i'm not sure a 2yo can be intentionally malicious?) towards other children. There are absolutely no triggers for this, he can be playing nicely, and then just randomly hit the child next to him on the head with something, or they can be totally minding their own business and he'll just go and push them over- this is the behaviour which nursery and I are most concerned about. I have tried all sorts of techniques to get him to stop, but nothing seems to work.
I am not exactly surprised that the nursery want him assessed, however I am surprised that this is happening now at 2 years old, I sort of assumed that if in a year or so he is the same then maybe something would need to be done, but not now. I just wondered if anyone has any experience of an assessment of a 2yo? What are they looking for? Also, does this mean that they think he has SEN? What sort of SEN could be diagnosed in a 2yo?
Any help/advice would be really appreciated!
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Hoplikeabunny · 06/03/2015 20:41
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