hi all. im struggling to decide which dates to use as an angelversary, i found out i was having a mmc at 5w 4d and waited 9 weeks for things to happen naturaly then chose medical management to get things underway and save my sanity. i started bleeding imediatley after first tablet. tablets and pesaries didnt work properly and i ended up having my "jelly bean" removed by a doctor by hand 4 days after first tablet.
now im stuck, do i use the date there was no heartbeat on the scan, the day the bleeding started or the day everything was removed as the day to remember my angel? i know the day of babys due day will be a special day to remember and reflect so do i use this as the date to remember or one of the others?. im so confused and everyone keeps telling me the choice is mine or do what ever feels right but none of this feel rightand this is a choice i can not seem to make on my own.
i was wondering if its not too painfull to go over which dates others have used to remember?
so glad you girls are on here, you have been my life line over the last few weeks (not that i would wish this on anyone) but its good to know others who have been through similar experiences and emotions. tc all x
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Jakey87 · 21/04/2010 02:22
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