I spent the day in hospital yesterday having "medical management" but it didn't work. No bleeding, no cramps, nothing. I'm now booked in for an ERPC on Monday.
I'm not not sure which I'm more freaked out about - having a general anaesthetic or having the miscarriage happen naturally at home in the next few days. Because this is my fourth miscarriage the hospital have said they would test the foetus, but that means if it happens at home I have to try to (TMI alert) collect it all up to take back into hospital. The logistics of actually how I go about doing this is pretty horrible. I've previously had a medically managed miscarriage at 12 weeks where the blood loss and clots were quite frankly pretty horrifying. This is only 9 weeks but still I'm worried about how much blood there will be and what happens if it all kicks in when I'm out and about. I have a feeling it can all happen much quicker if you have had the tablets.
It's all a bit crap really. Was coping with it all ok until the treatment didn't work.
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Just had "medical management" and it failed. Feeling crap and not sure what to expect.
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neolara · 08/10/2008 13:31
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