Missed miscarriage agony

[Pollyanna1087]

Hi, had my dating scan yesterday and baby had no heartbeat, had stopped developing at 8weeks and 1 day. I feel completely gutted and guilty, I was in such shock when I found out i was so stressed can't help but blame my self.
I opted to have medical management as I should have been 12 weeks now and with a 6 year old lg I don't want to miscarry with her in the house.
I had treatment today and I don't know what I'm doing. Pain comes and goes as does the bleeding. Rather hoping it's all passed now, has anyone else experienced this.
Xxxxxxxxx

[Lizziedoll]

I just want to say that I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you are ok . I'm going through a natural mc at the moment at 6 weeks pg and my heart goes out to you, it's a terrible thing to go through. You are not alone. Sending hugs xxx

[FrazzleRock]

Pollyanna1087 This happened to me in February. Our baby died at 9 weeks. It's been a horribly dark few months and I'm so sorry you're having to go through it too. I had surgical management as I'd never miscarried before so was scared of going through it naturally.
After a few weeks it will feel like some days start to feel brighter, but I also get awful days. I'm told it gets easier. I can't offer you much comfort I'm afraid as I'm trapped in a horrid dark hole due to DP not wanting to ever try again. But I wanted to let you know you're not alone

[FrazzleRock]

Sorry to your loss too Lizziedoll

[Lizziedoll]

Thank you frazzlerock it seems my partner doesn't want to try again either which adds to the horror of this situation. You are not alone. Feel free to private message me anytime if you want a chat