Hi,
I just wondered if anyone who has been in my situation could give me some advice? My husband and I went for our 12 week scan two days ago (on Wednesday, it is now Friday). We were told that our baby was measuring smaller than it should and that they could not find a heartbeat. We were so shocked and upset because we didn't know anything was wrong. Our only DD who is nearly 6 has Spina Bifida, so we are yet to have a 'happy, everything is OK' scan.
I have chosen to have the surgical procedure to remove the baby. I am waiting for a date to go in, but at the moment I am all over the place as to what to do in the meantime. If I don't hear of a date today, it will be the weekend and I'm meant to be working as normal on Mondah. Obviously my boss ect don't even know I'm pregnant, we were waiting until this scan to announce.
I don't know how I can go to work with this emotional burden over me, and I don't know how I can walk around pretending to my colleagues that everything is ok when my baby is no longer alive inside of me. Do I ask my doctor and ask for advice and a sick note? Do I tell my boss what is happening? I just really don't know. My days off are Thursday and Friday so thank God, I haven't had to go near the place since the scan.
Thanks for your help x
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