Its coming up to 3 months since my last miscarriage (I have had 3) and it seems like my 'mum' friends' have forgotten that I was ever pregnant at all (I also have a DS). They were all very kind and sympathetic at the time, but now if I even reference being pregnant or miscarrying when discussing events of the last few months it feels like a stony silence follows.
They all know we were trying for almost a year and that I was 12 weeks when we lost the pregnancy so I'm surprised at their reaction. I don't think I have talked a great deal about the miscarriage so as to exhaust their patience! Has anyone else experienced this? Quite a few people have spoken to my husband, asking how I am and expressing sympathy recently but nothing is said to me personally, even if I mention it. I still feel so down about the loss, but recently I've started feeling desperately lonely with no one to talk to, or offer just a kind word of understanding. I wonder whether its me rather than the topic of miscarriage which is the problem? Does anyone else feel the same?
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3 months on and feel alone
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backtotheplanet · 12/05/2015 13:57
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