Hello all,
I'm new to mumsnet and this is my first post. I had a miscarriage last week and just wanted to share my feelings with those going through the same as me right now and hopefully hear some success stories following ttc after miscarriage.
My husband and I had been trying to get pregnant for 7 months. In that time we've watched so many people we know fall pregnant and have babies so when we found out I was pregnant we were over the moon and just so happy our time had finally come. Then that dream was shattered last week when I lost our little bean. To say I'm heartbroken is an understatement. I was only 6 and a half weeks so it was very early on and I know the first 12 weeks are very risky but I can't help feel I've had everything snatched away from me before it had even begun.
It doesn't help that I know at least three people who are expecting right now so everywhere I turn I feel as though I am surrounded by pregnant women. Out of our immediate circle of friends we are the only couple who don't have or are expecting children. I know it's not a competition but this is the one thing we want more than anything in the world and it just feels so unfair. I know it's not the end of the world and that there are ladies out there with far worse losses than mine but I just feel so lost and empty. Every time I think I'm ok I end up thinking of what could have been and I get upset all over again.
We want to start ttc again asap. Tbh I think that is the only way we can get over this but at the same time I can't bear to go through the whole process again as it took us so long to conceive the first time. Anyway I would love to hear some happy endings right now to give me some hope. But even if I don't get any replies I thought it might help me just to write my feelings down.
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Feeling lost after miscarrying first pregnancy
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HannahB86 · 17/11/2014 19:58
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