Hello there,
Never written on one of these before but just looking for a bit of advice. In October 2012 hubby and I lost our baby at 13 weeks, I have had 2 normal cycles since so we started to try again after new year, I was due on on Friday just gone (Jan 25) and have tested today (Sunday) and got a negative result, with a clearblue test so I know its correct and have now also had a small show. I'm just absolutely gutted and I feel like I've lost baby all over again, its brought it all straight back, I just wanted to be pregnant again and with all the research I've done with everyone saying how fertile you are after a loss its easy to fall pregnant again I just feel rubbish! Thankfully we have a soon to be 3 year old beautiful son together already. When I was in my teens I was told I would find it difficult to have children naturally due to ovarian cysts and had so many pregnancy complications with our son and almost died after birth due to retained placenta and PPH that now I'm thinking maybe our little boy is a miracle and maybe I wasn't supposed to have him either! Also with pictures you see on week-by-week pregnancy calendars I'm angry at myself for not looking at the baby that we lost when I had it (I chose medical management) and was surprised by how large the baby was. I'm just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience and how long they waited to try and how long before they were successful? And also whether It is likely for me to miscarry bias
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TrudyW · 27/01/2013 09:14
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