I'm not very close to her as I don't see her much, but her dh is a very close friend of my dh.
They were scheduled to fly to NZ today but had to postpone as she had a silent miscarriage (?) yesterday. Was in the first trimester and just went for a quick check because she felt a bit under the weather. The scan 1 week ago was fine. Yesterday's... no baby.
It's her 4th miscarriage (2nd this year) I think and we are planning to invite them round for the weekend. I know she really really really wants kids.
So what do I say/do not say/do as obviously we want to make them feel better not depressed.
We have 2 small kids ourselves and I'm pretty sure seeing them won't make her feel worse. Well I hope so anyhow...
Anybody can tell me how to act? I'm asking because a close friend of mine had a miscarriage the same time I found out I was pg with ds and I haven't heard from her since :( even though I tried being very supportive but I think she couldn't handle that I had a little bubba and she didn't iykwim, which I can understand in a way but still it hurts as we were very close.
So naturally worried to 'put my foot in' with someone I'm not that close with.
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MrsBigD · 19/04/2006 14:21
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