I had a mc at the end of Nov. I had taken a test the day before which was a faint line so assumed nothing (I know!), the next day I started bleeding and again just assumed it was the start of my period. It became very clear the following day that it was a mc.
5 days before this my father passed away. I was staying at my parents house and I was on my own with my mother making arrangements I decided it was better if I did not bother mum with it. So I kept it a secret from her, my dh was td when he got back from work. My brother and sil were very good for a few days.
Basically I got pg immediately and so far so good. However I haven't really to anyone, a couple of veryclose friends. Dh made me tell mum. But I feel very, well not sure what the rights words are but I don't want to tell people. I think the mc and my dad are all mixed up in my head and becoming pg again so quickly has mixed me up even more.
Anyway onto the point! Should I tell me about the mc? I didn't want to upset her and still don't but dh thinks it would help her to understand how I am feeling. I just don't know what to do for the best. She has commented today that she thinks I need more rest and it's been tough for me lately.
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LoveBeingAKnockedUp · 02/03/2011 21:10
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