I always thought that DH and I had had some rocky patches but basically had a strong relationship but since my mmc and erpc 3 weeks ago we've been arguing constantly. I really need to talk to him about how I'm feeling, especially about continuing ttc (we have a 2yr old dd) but he won't engage and says it's selfish not to have another child and for dd to be an only. My 2nd pregnancy (that ended in mmc) was the result of 18 months of trying and 3 cycles of clomid and I don't know if I want to carry on trying, especially as I'm the one bearing much of the physical and emotional burden. He's also been completely shit about giving me time and space to recover and if I do have any time to myself (I went to the gym this am) then he brings it up for days as if I'm supposed to be really grateful.
Sorry this is such as long post, I just wondered how other people's relationships had been affected and I guess get some ideas of what I could do to improve things. Thanks!
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reallygrumpy · 24/07/2010 20:53
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