I've posted this in relationships, but they suggested I try here too. Hope you can help
Right. I'm going to (eventually) leave my dh. Counselling has shown me this is the right thing to do and for the first time in ages I actually feel ok, well i feel okish (but thta's an improvement!)
But I haven't a clue where to start. Can you wise mners further down the road bear to share their wisdom? Specifically:
How do I find out about housing? will I get housed (have ds aged 7).
What about work? practically this makes work v difficult/impossibe (I do agency work and in different locations)as I will lose my transport, so won't be able to do same job? Have I made my self voluntarily out of work? Will this affect any benefits I might get? How can I find out about benefits?
This all feels very new to me (but weirdly exciting as well). Have noone local in rl to discuss this with or help. Have just spoken to H about it, whose response was "when are you moving out?", then "go and see cab"(I will try to tomorrow). have looked at "entitled to" website but can't make much sense of it cos income irregular, don't know where I'm going to be living etc. Have ordered "divorce for dummies".
Please share you "out the other side" stories and practical advice too. And wish me luck! Many many thanks.
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imgoingtodoit · 17/03/2009 20:17
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