in court december - ex says to judge "i will do anything to see the dcs". so supervised contact at contact centre agreed (his mental health status, his unpredictable behaviour, violence), agreement to pay half each for six sessions jan-march...and cafcass to do report.
i hadnt heard anything...he turned up monday morning in the snow on doorstep (not allowed, court order is indirect contact 8 pm on a wednesday) brought donuts, asked to take kids out in snow (??) ..i said no, speak to the centre - he said "i have i dont like it, i want to propose church hall where i am doing an alpha course...oh and i am unemployed i cant pay"
so let's say he has reasonable complaint about centre (cant see what! is very pleasant environment toys books etc...)
is up to him to take me back to court and ask for different arrangements right? (we ahve date for review hearing end april)
and why would i agree to some church group? when centre is independent secular? (not against church but am agnostic/indifferent...) -cant se they trained in supervising contact...
and if he cant pay he should bring that up too? he doesnt have a solicitor (LIP) but he is supposed to speak to mine if any issues...
in meantime he hasnt seen kids at all since august - only once in december supervised at court family room.
oh and he said to me on doorstep "you look better when you smile" and "you are the paranoid one".
have reported it all to solicitor....
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he will do anything to see the kids - except obey court order!
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cestlavielife · 05/02/2009 12:12
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