Hello I am new to posting a messages on mumsnet but have been reading messages for a while and thought I might ask the advice of you wise people.
I have been split up from my ex for two years now. Our DS is 3.
Before the split all was rows and turmoil. Anyone seen 'who's afraid of virginia woolf?', well then you get the picture. But since the split, we have actually become much better friends.
Recently he suggested to me we should get back together again.
I don't know what to do, you see. I don't know that I really love Ex P any more. I do care about him, and I love the way he loves our son, but more than that......and I still remember how awful the rows were. Would we just go back to the old ways if we got back together, or have we grown up a bit in the last two years. I'm not really sure.
More than anything I want to do the best for DS. I know if I did find another partner they wouldn't love him like his Dad does.
Then there's the fact that I'm very broody at the moment, fast approaching 40 and wondering if this might be my last chance to try for another baby...
Are these all the wrong reasons??
Sorry for rather long post. Anyone have any advice for me?
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MrNonsense · 05/10/2008 22:15
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