To cut a long story short, DD's dad has never had much to do with her throughout her life. She see him, his wife and her half siblings very occasionally. She is 14. I gave up years ago trying to persuade him to show an interest and have tried to persuade myself that she is not affected by his absence in her life.
She is affected by it and has suffered some bleak moments.
After returning from a regular visit to her grandma's (his mum) last week she broke down saying she wants a final push and answers. It seems as though it hasn't fallen on deaf ears this time and she came home yesterday from a day with her grandma saying that they have asked her to have tea with them once a week. It's a train ride away but they will bring her back.
I'm hoping this is a satisfactory outcome and that she can go into adulthood with a balanced view of her father.
All the hard work has been done now and its all she need from him, just a little bit of acceptance, she is busier nowadays with school etc.
Surely the term better late that never applies. I wonder what other people think?
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Remotew · 22/09/2008 10:51
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