I've been following some sterling Mumsnet advice for the past week in having nothing to do with XP, other than texting in relation to DS drop-offs. DS (3) has switched between us via my parents, and I haven't seen XP. I have been coping a lot better having that distance.
However, I know the general advice is to be calm and civil with one another for the kids. Can we do that simply via text and e-mail? I don't have to see XP, do I? He has done such hurtful stuff in the past six months that, forcing friendliness with him - even though he can with me, and it would be "for our DS" - feels fundamentally wrong. Instinct is telling me to self-protect and have next to nothing to do with this person.
I suppose that, while this is working for me and helping me heal, I'm wondering if I'm doing the "wrong" thing?
(I should add that DS is seeing his dad, sometimes reluctantly, two or three times a week; just not the two of us at the same time, even for a little bit.)
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What if mature, amicable co-parenting hurts too much and you need to have nothing to do with X for your own sanity?
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Twoddle · 05/05/2008 00:30
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