Since my ex left without warning taking our son almost a year ago, I have built contact up to a heady four hours a week. She hasn't spoken to me at all since she went (and made unfounded physical child abuse and DV allegations that never actually made it to our first hearing) and the only thing I get by way of communication is silly sniping. What is telling is that when I do something to address her comments about one thing...something else comes up.
She needs to know where we go, for how long, what he eats, how much, when and for how long he sleeps, etc. etc.
My son is well cared for. I am a responsible parent. I have excellent support from family and friends (including quite a few mothers with children of the same age as my son!) who, like any other parent I talk to, swap tips and compare notes.
He's happy when he's with me, trusts me and quite obviously loves me.
Things are getting better, but they would be so much better if she would talk to me so we can work together. I am at a lose to see what she hopes to achieve with her actions other than hoping that I will give up in the end. That's not going to happen though!
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lostdad · 14/01/2008 09:25
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