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I have never known stress like this!!!

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tetti · 22/09/2007 10:17

Found a lovely house for me and my daughter,last Weds after a lot of stringent checks (including my old afther in law being accepted as a guarantor),the agent told me that the landlords had accepted me as a tenant and that I could hand in my notice at the property where we are currently living.
Fantastic I thought,finally we can move on wiith our lives,I ordered removal boxes and started packing.
Then I called the agent to arrange a time to pay the reminder of the deposit.
-Oh,I haven't got the final nod from the landlords yet!So I can't guarantee you that it's a 100 percent yours! (What?! After I'd handed in my notice,and notified various relevant people of my move,and above all,had told my 5 year old we got the house!)

They wanted more info from the guarantor,more bankstatements,proof of ownership of his house,etc.I couldn't believe it,all the info provided previously proves beyond any reasonable doubt that I am more than good to pay the rent,and that the guarantor is very comfortable financially indeed.But no,more proof needed.

So,they got the additional info yesterday morning,but despite chasing it yesterday,I got no answer.
I viewed another place just in case (to cover my self in case this falls through),but it was such a dive I just wanted to break down and cry.
At the moment there are literally no 2 bed flats avaliable in my area,but I just could not move my child into the place we saw yesterday,it was unfit for animals to live in!

I am so worried I just feel like cracking up,but I have to be strong for my girl.
I knew life as a single mum would be hard,but nothing could prepare me for this.

I have just over a week to find us a place before we need to move out of our current home,and that fact frightens the living daylights out of me.
I have to really hassle the agent to pressure the landlords about a decision on the house on Monday(it is exceptional for this area,and we could never find anything else like it for that price).We were supposedly due to move in in a weeks time,so you think they'd get a move on!

Please all,keep your fingers (very) crossed for me,I do need all the luck I can get.

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muma3 · 22/09/2007 10:20

aww hun i have read your other post and have been worried for you honest. i will keep my fingers crossed for you >

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Tottie32 · 22/09/2007 10:24

can you contact the people who own the place your in?

hope all works out for you

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tetti · 22/09/2007 10:32

Thank's:-).I try my best to stop worrying this weekedn as there is nothing that I can do about the situation until Monday (easier said than done,,but I have to try I guess).
Maybe I should play the lottery this eve and hope for some luck!

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tetti · 24/09/2007 20:45

YEEESSSSS!!!!The place is indeed mine,I can celebrate!!!:-)

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muma3 · 24/09/2007 20:46

oh wow , im so so so happy for you !!!! i have a glass of blossom hill in your honour. god what a relief !!!

well done

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Alambil · 24/09/2007 21:00

oh what a relief!! how fabulous

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almostmidnight · 24/09/2007 21:14

So chuffed for you Tetti. I hope all goes great for you in your new home. I am off to see a house tomorrow so keep your fingers crossed for me.

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Tinkerbel5 · 25/09/2007 09:43

well dont tetti when do you move in ?

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Tinkerbel5 · 25/09/2007 09:43

*done

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