This is just a rant really, I'm bloody angry but not surprised because since my 'ex husband left he seems to be a law unto himslef, with regards to, behaviour, responsibility and lets face it the ability to string two thoughts together.
He's working as far a s I know, because i was getting x amount, which has now been reduced by half, and we aint talking £££ hear either.
I assume he's working, when he wasnt-- all of last year I got nothing at all, whereas the kids he lives with (hers) got it all, even tho they have 2 dads who give nothing.
How low is it to adjust his debit to me without even saying, and in the week b4 her birthday, when I was the one who got her party together, and al the rest, plus gifts.
I am so fucking pissed off with him, he still has me by the short and curlies, i want to say something, but there is little point, I almost feel like I have said it b4 and it has had no effect. He's such a coward not letting me know, but had the cheek to turn up at dd birthdya party, on MY doorstep with his new partner and her kid, and I was @expected to let him and her kiddie in ( id made it clear I didnt want her there, as my friends and family were gonna be there, and the party was all done by me with not one offer of help at all)plus he started to tell me what a difficult time he'd had with his parents, and wantdme to listen, whic I had to as I was cornered at our child's party, and trying to be civil in front of dd 5.
I hate him, i absolutely cannot fathom him, or begin to understand where the hell my 'lovely' husband has gone.
I hear he's doing tis and doing that, ( like restoration and stuff) and thik oh is that where my £10 has gone. Its bloddy pathetic, but ultimately makes me want to weep, cos its his child he is almost denying.
Oh and another thing !! Get this, in his birthday card he signed it from ( no love) and used his first name and not dad or daddy--WTF is all that about.
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ex dh, has reduced meny for dd again without telling me why.
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pirategirl · 02/05/2007 22:54
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